It's really important topic because we all have to deal with opinions and criticism of others because...
...the only place when peple don't have to deal with them is cemetery.
So worrying about opinions of others isn't a problem.
The problem is whose opinion you care about.
Criticism of the sage is better than praise of fool.
So the thing is that you should care about criticism and opinions of people who love you, who are better than you in areas where you want to be better and who will tell you the truth regardless of how good or how bad this truth will sound for you.
In other words, stop worrying about criticism and opinion of others isn't a solution.
Solution is realize that everytime when you start doing something what most people don't do (starting new business, going to the gym 3 times a week, writing, singing, etc.) there will be always someone who will tell you something negative about your activity.
"You won't ever do this business..."
"Now you look like an empty fibroid."
"Writing is stupid and you won't make money thanks to it..."
"I don't like your singing..."
You can ask yourself:
Why people do something like that?
The answer is pretty simple:
Because when we start doing something new and when people see that we have results, then they also see their potencial and possibilities that they didn't use to change something in their life.
Because most people believe that the best way to live life is mediocrity.
Average earnings, average weight, average car, average life.
Usually we call it a normal life, and always when someone stops being "normal" (starts to make more money, getting a better look, buy a better car) becomes the object of opinion and criticism of others.
Why Talking About Worrying About Opinions Of Others Is So Important?
Because in many cases we worry about opinion of others so much that we stop doing anything to reach our goals and achieve our dreams.
Yes, we are so scared that we prefer to not doing anything than to do something and become an object of criticism of others.
Let's face it...
You aren't normal...
Nobody has such DNA like you ...
Nobody has the structure of the retina like you ...
No one has such a fingerprint as you ...
No one has such a story as you ...
I have a twin brother but even twins are not exactly the same ...
In other words...
You are someone special and only you can fulfill your potential.
Don't even think about being accepted by all because it's not your work.
Your work is to become the best version of yourself.
Surround yourself with people who already have what you want to have or with people who also want to become someone better that they are right now.
Start working on yourself by listening, reading and watching people smarter than you in areas where you want to be better than you are right now.
When you become right person you also start to attract right people to your life.
Yes, it's that simple but no one says it's easy because it takes your time, efforts and determination to become someone who you want to be.
And just keep in mind that there will be always someone who won't like what you do but it's not your problem.
Just do what you want to do and focus on people who want to go with you and who want to help you reach our goals like these people.
To your success,